- You should not reveal all the details in first meeting itself. Leave some scope for second or third meeting.I have been meeting people for arrange marriage. I (25M) have started looking for a potential partner with the help of my parents, but we are having trouble figuring out how the meetings should be set up. Do not assume his answer and wait for him to say it. It would not be fair to play the guessing game with something as serious and sensitive as marriage. Arranged Marriage: What to Ask a Girl in the First Meeting. Getting married is an amusing feeling, but these feelings are multiplied when you have to meet a Asking these seven questions would help both of you to know each other better and decide if you should go ahead with this proposal. I met her through an arranged marriage set up.