How do I write a letter to change my church membership? This is an almost unanswerable question without context.A member of any church may opt to withdraw their church membership. Please notify us in a letter or e-mail if you wish to withdraw. Fill out this form if your church needs to change or file an equalization lay member to Annual Conference. Use this form to notify the District office. If you want to homeschool, you'll need to write a school withdrawal letter if your child is attending a public or private school. See tips and samples here. Easily withdraw your membership from a church with our free Church Membership Withdrawal Letter Template. After prayerful thought and discernment, I have decided that I wish to withdraw from the Ordained.