"May your marriage be filled with laughter, love, and countless beautiful moments. Best wishes on your wedding day!"Please do not feel obliged to buy us a gift; all that we are expecting is you. Com : How can I ask for money instead of gifts at my wedding? There is no proper way to word that, as it's rude to ask for money. And definitely do not put anything about gifts or money on your invitations. A big nono when it comes to asking for money as a wedding gift is putting the request on the invitation or on any sort of physical correspondence. Below, we'll give you specific examples of what to write in a wedding card with money, with options for cash, gift cards, charity donations and checks. How do I Ask for Money for a Wedding Gift?