There is no proper way to word that, as it's rude to ask for money. And definitely do not put anything about gifts or money on your invitations.You can write something simple like "Congratulations!" or "For the honeymoon. We've compiled our best wedding thankyou card writing tips, todos, and wording examples to help you with every possible gifting scenario. Your presence at our wedding is gift enough, but, should you wish to give a gift as well, a cash gift to put towards our honeymoon would be greatly appreciated. For instance, "Thank you so much for your generosity and for attending our wedding! Landon and I are so excited to decorate our new home. Don't word a wedding invitation asking guests to give you money as a gift which at least covers the cost of the meal. You must provide your bank statement (not the donor's) showing the gift deposit and date. Wedding registries such as The Knot can be used.