We are wondering is this: how do we tell our guests that we would prefer to get money as gifts so we can save up to buy a house. In lieu of a traditional gift, we would be grateful for a monetary contribution towards our life together."May your marriage be filled with laughter, love, and countless beautiful moments. Best wishes on your wedding day! Com : How can I ask for money instead of gifts at my wedding? Your presence at our wedding is gift enough, but, should you wish to give a gift as well, a cash gift to put towards our honeymoon would be greatly appreciated. Memento is a classy way to ask your guests for cash gifts so you can afford life's luxuries – like your perfect wedding, dream home, or exotic vacation. There is no proper way to word that, as it's rude to ask for money. And definitely do not put anything about gifts or money on your invitations. What is better to give: money or a physical gift?