There is no proper way to word that, as it's rude to ask for money. And definitely do not put anything about gifts or money on your invitations.Have any of you told your guests that you'd rather have a cash gift? How do I go about wording this in the invite? That's the most polite way I could think of . Your presence at our wedding is gift enough, but, should you wish to give a gift as well, a cash gift to put towards our honeymoon would be greatly appreciated. What wording is a good way to ask for monetary gifts in my wedding invitation? Below, we'll give you specific examples of what to write in a wedding card with money, with options for cash, gift cards, charity donations and checks. Wedding invitation wording suggestions to let your guests know that, if they wish to give something, monetary gifts are preferred. Sending the happy couple a letter saying, "Hey guys, I didn't have to, but I chose to give money to your favorite charity.