"Please do not feel obliged to buy us a gift; all that we are expecting is you. There is no proper way to word that, as it's rude to ask for money.And definitely do not put anything about gifts or money on your invitations. Don't word a wedding invitation asking guests to give you money as a gift which at least covers the cost of the meal. That's the most polite way I could think of . Thank you cards should be sent within 3 months after getting home from your honeymoon for gifts received on your wedding day. How do I Ask for Money for a Wedding Gift? Schedule a marriage ceremony, apply for a license, and access a list of FAQs to help you with the process. Create a soup-er care package with soup, cookies, and other comforts. Here are some of our favorites.