There is no proper way to word that, as it's rude to ask for money. And definitely do not put anything about gifts or money on your invitations.There is no "appropriate" way to ask for monetary gifts - you just don't do it. "Please do not feel obliged to buy us a gift; all that we are expecting is you. Gifts should never be mentioned on save the dates or invitations it is rude. Register for everything you want in one place, from cash funds and experiences to top brands from our store—you can even link other registries! We'll be sharing the top tips for writing wedding thank you messages with 30 wedding thank you wording templates that you and your partner can use for yourself. Your presence at our wedding is gift enough, but, should you wish to give a gift as well, a cash gift to put towards our honeymoon would be greatly appreciated. You customize a gift. I am getting married in July and am currently making our wedding invitations but I am having some trouble with some wording.