There is no proper way to word that, as it's rude to ask for money. And definitely do not put anything about gifts or money on your invitations.Have any of you told your guests that you'd rather have a cash gift? How do I go about wording this in the invite? This means you need to figure out how much are. Your presence and prayers are all that we request. Your presence at our wedding is gift enough, but, should you wish to give a gift as well, a cash gift to put towards our honeymoon would be greatly appreciated. That's the most polite way I could think of . This article will provide you with some tips and guidelines on how to ask for cash wedding gifts politely and without offending anyone. You must provide a copy of the marriage license or certificate.