Below, we'll give you specific examples of what to write in a wedding card with money, with options for cash, gift cards, charity donations and checks. "May your marriage be filled with laughter, love, and countless beautiful moments.Best wishes on your wedding day! There is no proper way to word that, as it's rude to ask for money. And definitely do not put anything about gifts or money on your invitations. Com : How can I ask for money instead of gifts at my wedding? Wedding thank you card wording doesn't need to be hard. Gifts should never be mentioned on save the dates or invitations it is rude. There are some creative ways to give cash as a wedding gift that can be way more personal and fun than just stuffing it in an envelope and handing it over. Your presence at our wedding is gift enough, but, should you wish to give a gift as well, a cash gift to put towards our honeymoon would be greatly appreciated.