You should begin the process at least one year before your anticipated retirement date. A QDRO recognizes the right of an "alternate payee" to receive all or part of a retirement or pension plan that belongs to another person.After you retire, you must wait at least 45 days before accepting employment with any participating employer. You may need to fill out a new Direct Deposit sign-up form. Do not close your old account until payments have started coming to your new account. If you are 65 or older or totally disabled (or your spouse is totally disabled), you may qualify for Maryland's maximum pension exclusion. Gov (Subject: Change of Bank) and provide the following:. Frequently asked questions regarding eligibility, enrollment, financial help, health plans, user accounts, and Medicaid. Retirement Benefits from the Seafarers Pension Plan. Veterans Benefits Administration.