I would get a notarized letter stating the grandparents have permission to act as medical surrogates in your absence. My son is staying with his grandparents (my parents) for 4 days next weekend while we go out of town.All you need to do is state in the letter that you are requesting your daughter's discharge. We could get it in writing that our parents had consent to make medical decisions for Booboo while we were out of town. It's a pdf file that can be adapted to your specific situation. These forms are not a substitute for legal advice and if you have difficulty filling out these forms, then you may wish to consult with an attorney. Have your lawyer send a letter to your ex. Reference to the specific letter section of Section 22.3 in order to justify their sick leave. Intestate: Estate in which the Decedent did not leave a will. All rights reserved.