Everything you need to write a declaration letter to the judge in your custody case: an example, a downloadable template, an outline and tips. A DOPA gives permission for someone else to make decisions about your child's care, custody, and property.It is the same as if you made the decision yourself. Stipulation and Order for Custody, Parenting Time and Child Support. The forms listed below are for use only in the Tenth District. Most child support forms are available in several languages. Below is a list of frequently requested Human services forms. Click on the form to complete and print.