HSLDA members can also use the North Carolina sample letter of withdrawal below. You can use this form to follow the withdrawal procedure of the North Carolina school your child is currently attending.The letter should include all of your child's identifying information, including their full name, birthdate, and grade. Scroll down to find information about withdrawing your child from public or private school if they are under seven. Next, clearly state your child's name and the school they are leaving. Customer: I have spoken with the principal. Most states require that a parent send in a letter of intent before withdrawing their child from public or private schooling. Be Mindful of Compulsory Education Laws.