Disabled Veterans or Surviving Spouse Exemption. This program provides real estate tax exemption for veterans meeting certain criteria related to their service.Disabled veterans and their surviving spouse are exempt from local real estate taxes on their principal residence. The Commonwealth of Virginia does not offer property tax relief programs. Tax bills are generally mailed to property owners 30 days prior to the property tax due date. Contact your town to find out the tax due date. VA Form 3288 - With highlighted areas only filled out and signed - SEE ATTACHED. Copy of Property Deed. This is a complete exemption from real property taxes on their house and surrounding yard. You may be eligible for real property tax relief in most Virginia cities and counties if you are 65 years old or have a disability (regardless of age).