How to fill out the Affidavit for Surviving Spouse or Next of Kin? This manual is intended to assist persons who are involved in the administration of a decedent's estate in Virginia.Notify Bank of America. We'll ask you for the deceased customer's full legal name and Social Security number to identify their accounts. The original will can be either hand delivered or mailed to our Probate Division at P.O. Box 4667, West Palm Beach, Fl. 33402.