Our mission is to educate parents about the ASSA and empower them to opt their children out of taking this unconstitutional and detrimental test. Take a sample letter, and make it your own!To my mind, the best letters are: --specific in delineating what you are not allowing your child to do. Sample Refusal (Opt Out) Letters. This page has links to opt out letters for the tests New York STATE gives to 3rd-8th graders every spring. FORM: Student Internet Permission OptOut Form. 93.