Sample Refusal (Opt Out) Letters. This page has links to opt out letters for the tests New York STATE gives to 3rd-8th graders every spring.This is a general guide of the various steps and forms a parent can follow to Opt Out of the STAAR assessment. You may want to use a separate letter for each STAAR assessment and a separate letter for each child you have enrolled in school. I emailed the main opt out letter for STAAR to every single one of my daughters teachers and her principal. We are Texas Parents concerned about the overuse of testing in our Texas Public Schools. Teach students to affirmatively recognize that people have different sexual orientations. •. Provide discussion and examples of same-sex relationships. •.