You can write your own letter or use our sample letter. Sample Refusal (Opt Out) Letters.This page has links to opt out letters for the tests New York STATE gives to 3rd-8th graders every spring. Opting-out is the process of refusing to participate in state and district testing programs for grades 3-8. Parents can write and submit a refusal letter. THIS SCHOOL is an amazing school and I appreciate the opportunity to refuse this test. Q: How do I opt-out my child from testing? This letter informs a child's teacher and principal that the parent is removing their child from STAAR testing based on their moral and religious beliefs. This is a general guide of the various steps and forms a parent can follow to Opt Out of the STAAR assessment. This affidavit is used to request exclusion from required school immunizations for reasons of conscience, including religious belief.