You can write your own letter or use our sample letter. You may want to use a separate letter for each STAAR assessment and a separate letter for each child you have enrolled in school.This is a general guide of the various steps and forms a parent can follow to Opt Out of the STAAR assessment. This letter informs a child's teacher and principal that the parent is removing their child from STAAR testing based on their moral and religious beliefs. Sample Refusal (Opt Out) Letters. This page has links to opt out letters for the tests New York STATE gives to 3rd-8th graders every spring. Take a sample letter, and make it your own! To my mind, the best letters are: --specific in delineating what you are not allowing your child to do. We are pleased to inform you that we will be delivering the Be Proud! The survey for students includes 15 questions and should take no more than 10–15 minutes to complete.