Dear [Spouse's Name], I hope this letter finds you well. I am writing to inform you that I am requesting an extension to file my responsive pleading in relation to our divorce/separation proceedings in North Dakota. I apologize for any inconvenience this may cause and appreciate your understanding in this matter. As we both understand, divorce/separation proceedings can be emotionally challenging, and there may be various factors contributing to the need for an extension. [Optional: Specify any personal or logistical reasons for the extension such as illness, travel, or gathering necessary documentation.] I believe it is crucial to approach this process with careful consideration, as it involves making decisions that will significantly impact both our lives moving forward. The extension will allow me ample time to thoroughly review the divorce/separation documents received, consult with an attorney, if necessary, and prepare a comprehensive responsive pleading that addresses all relevant issues and concerns. I want to assure you that my intention is to approach this process in a fair and respectful manner, prioritizing open communication and collaboration. By granting me this extension, we can both have the necessary time to assess our individual circumstances and find common ground for a mutually beneficial resolution, limiting the need for prolonged legal action and emotional strain. I kindly request your cooperation in granting an extension of [specific time period] to file my responsive pleading. This additional time will provide us with the opportunity to gather pertinent information, consider any requests or proposals, and approach the divorce/separation proceedings with a clear and focused mindset. Please be aware that I am committed to ensuring the timely and efficient resolution of our divorce/separation. I will use the granted extension wisely to diligently work towards a fair and equitable outcome for both parties involved. Should you require any additional information or if there are alternative solutions we can explore together, please do not hesitate to communicate with me. My primary goal is to reach an amicable resolution that prioritizes our best interests, the needs of any dependents involved, and promotes ongoing positive co-parenting, if applicable. Thank you for your understanding and cooperation in this matter. I firmly believe that by granting this extension, we are taking a significant step towards fostering a more favorable divorce/separation process. Best regards, [Your Name] [Your Address] [City, State, ZIP Code] [Email Address] [Phone Number]